frequently asked questions

when is the rsvp due?

Please RSVP by [Insert Date] right here on our website by clicking the "RSVP" tab. If you cannot make it, please let us know as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly!

What is the dress code?

The dress code for our wedding is Cocktail / Black-Tie Optional. We want you to feel comfortable and look your best!
Keep in mind the ceremony will be outdoors on the golf course, so choose your footwear accordingly. 

Where is the ceremony and reception taking place?

Both events are at the same venue! The ceremony will be held outdoors on the golf course, and the reception will follow just a short walk away upstairs in the clubhouse.

Where should we stay?

Check out our Travel tab! We’ve put together a list of great spots to stay both on the beach and downtown. Feel free to book any of those recommendations or find a spot of your own that you love.

Will Transportation be provided?

Yes, golf cart shuttles will be available to transport guests to and from the golf course location. Please plan to arrive early so we can get everyone down to the site comfortably before the ceremony starts!

Is there parking available at the venue?

There is free parking available at the venue located at 500 Pine Valley Drive, Wilmington, NC, 28412.

What time should we arrive?

The ceremony will begin promptly at 5PM. We recommend arriving [20–30 minutes] early to grab a seat, mingle, and settle in before the music starts.

Will there be an open bar?

Yes! The drinks are on us. We will be serving a selection of beer, wine, and signature cocktails chosen by the bride and groom.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We are having an "unplugged" ceremony. We kindly ask that you turn off your phones and cameras and simply enjoy the moment with us. Our photographers are amazing and we promise to share the photos with you later! Once the reception starts, feel free to snap and share as many pictures as you'd like.

CAn I bring a plus one?

In an effort to keep our wedding intimate, we will only be accommodating the guests explicitly listed on your invitation. If your invitation says "[Your Name] & Guest," then yes! Otherwise, we look forward to celebrating with just you.

will the ceremony/ reception be indoors or outside?

The ceremony will be held outdoors on the golf course, followed by an indoor reception. We recommend bringing a light jacket or shawl just in case it gets chilly after the sun goes down, and choosing your footwear carefully for the grass!

Are Children welcome?

While we love your little ones, our wedding will be by invitation only so that everyone can relax and enjoy the night. If your child is invited they will be included on the invitation. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time so you can celebrate with us!

What if I have Dietary restrictions?

Please let us know of any allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP via the website. The caterer will be able to accommodate [vegetarian / vegan / gluten-free] needs with advance notice.

Can I post wedding photos on social media?

Yes, please! However, we kindly ask that you keep your phones away during the ceremony so our photographer can get clear shots. Once the reception starts, snap away and post as much as you'd like! 

Where are you registered?

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! However, if you would like to honor us with a gift, you can find our registry under the Registry Tab on this website. In addition this is an out of state wedding so please do not bring anything with you, instead we ask that you ship gifts to 3355 Willowrun Drive, Castle Rock, CO, 80109

Who can I contact if i have more questions about the wedding?

Help us stay stress free! We kindly ask that you do not contact the bride or groom with questions on the wedding week or day (even if you are our bestie!). Instead, please reach out to our wonderful Mother of the Bride, Roxane Stein, at (910) 512-4613. She has all the answers and will be happy to help!